Ques. for both men and women. Plead give advice.?

Keep it to yourself girl ,cause i was with some like that and we ended up together for a year andit never worked because he wanted to still have something onthe side. Even if we did talk about our setup in our relatinship.It ant nothing but a friend with benefits and you can't let that ride like that.It's O.K. to tell him ,but make sure you are sure.There are to many bad things out there.And what if one of the guys you go out with really likes you and you start fooling around with him and things get serious.Then what?